Wednesday, June 22, 2011

Cambodia - Part 2

While in Phnom Penh, we also had some time to sight see and be tourists. One afternoon we spent some time exploring the Russian Market. It is a HUGE enclosed market with a variety of goods for sale... of course, all prices are negotiable. The isles are a maze of endless stalls with items displayed from floor to ceiling. You can find anything from traditional Cambodian artwork to suspiciously cheap designer items. I left with 3 wooden carved plaques for the house, a t-shirt for Mike, and a North Face hiking bag all for under $30 total!

Of course, it was fun to see all the goods for sale but you have to get used to harassment from vendors. "Hey lady! You want shirt? Beautiful shirt! I give you good price. Just for you."

We all found some good buys and walked home happy.

We also visited a few key historical locations in Phnom Penh. A sad but influential part of Cambodian history is the genocidal rule of Pol Pot. From 1975-1979 over 2 million people died from starvation, overwork, torture and execution. What is today the Tuol Sleng Museum of Genocide was once the Tuol Sleng Prison, otherwise known as S-21, the headquarters to Pol Pot's Khmer Rouge secret police. Before Pol Pot came along, this place was a school consisting of 4 buildings, each 3 stories of classrooms built around a courtyard.

During Pol Pot's reign, this school was turned into a prison where up to 20,000 were held and tortured until they gave false confessions of offenses against the Khmer Rouge for which they were then executed. The rules of this prison are below.


Three of the four buildings were used to imprison people in small make-shift cells built into the classrooms. Each cell was just large enough to lay flat.

The fourth building had 17 classrooms left untouched. These were the rooms where they tortured prisoners until they confessed false crimes. Many of the rooms still had the metal cots, shackles, and waste buckets in them.


You can tell that the building was originally very beautiful: the checkered tile on the floor, the white washed wooden shutters on the windows, the palm trees in the courtyard. This would have been a great place to learn, grow, and flourish. But this is all now contrasted with the barbed wire and erie silence that hangs in the air.


From S-21, we took a tuk-tuk to a location outside of Phnom Penh called the Killing Fields o Cheung Ek. This is the location where prisoners and their families from Tuol Sleng were sacrificed and buried in mass graves. The women and children were also killed to prevent the revenge or procreation of those who offended the Khmer Rouge. In the middle of this location is a memorial building. They have 17 stories of remains on display to remind us of the casualties of the Pol Pot Regime.

This first level of this memorial was filled with skulls of the nameless victims. The remaining skeletal pieces were displayed on the higher 16 levels. The ground was covered with scraps of clothing left behind as well. It is truly a heart-stopping sight.

From the memorial building, we took a sobering walk around the grounds, weaving between excavated mass graves seen behind the sign below. Well over 100 graves were dug. Eighty have been excavated finding the remains of over 9,000 men, women, and children.

In the middle of the grounds is this tree, the Magic Tree. The sign below says it all, but the feeling of standing in front of it cannot be explained.

Even now, remains of innocent victims continues to resurface. Below is just an example of what we were stepping over on the main trail from mass grave to mass grave, from killing tree to killing tree.


Days spent at places like S-21 and The Killing Fields are not fun, but they are necessary. It is important that we see the remains of the lives lost and hear the stories of the survivors, though there were few. We need to see the power of ignorance, hate, and greed. We need to be shook with the knowledge, shocked by the horror of what people can do to other people. We need to see how these things can impact individuals, a country, a society and history so we never let this bit of history repeat itself. I am not happy to see thing like this, but I do feel like I am a better person for learning of it.

Cambodia - Part 1

It's been a while, but I was lucky enough to take a trip in mid-March to Cambodia with two friends. The first few days of our trip was spent in the capitol city of Phnom Penh working with a non-profit called In His Steps International (IHSI).

We were lucky enough to stay at the IHSI volunteer house. This house was a typical Phnom Penh house: a narrow three story stone building with a French Quarter feel to it. The kitchen was added to the back of the building either at a later date or is separate for temperature and pest control, it's not quite clear which one. The bathrooms were concrete rooms with a sink, commode, shower head on the wall, and a drain on the floor. There was no hot water, but it was so hot at the time, you didn't care! And when you showered, everything got wet - toilet seat and all!!
The gates in the front open to the "garage."
Another set of metal gates open to the house.

The founders of this organization, Eric and Genny, were our main guides and liaisons during our time there. They have 3 other Americans and three full time Khmer (the term used for a person from Cambodia) employees along with endless volunteers who facilitate their many ministries in and around Phnom Penh. IHSI has several ways in which they brings assistance to the local people.

The main location for IHSI was in a nearby village called Saang. Here, Eric and Genny have acquired a small plot of land and provide many services to the local people of Saang. They have put in the first water pump and the only indoor toilets in the village. It is a wonderful place for the locals to gather - the women to get water to cook food and clean clothes and the men to water their animals and bathe. On their plot, they have three buildings. The oldest is a single room on stilts. In this room, Khmer employees sleep at night and tutor school children by day. They have the only "library" in the village - a small plywood shelf with old children's books. Under this room, they tutors larger groups or kids, hold children's services, and each evening they teach English to local adults that want to learn.

The road to IHSI from Saang is rustic but well traveled.

IHSI complex in Saang.
Father's House on the left, school house on the right and Sak Saum in the back.

Some of the local children enjoy sugar pops after their program under the school house.

This "gang" of boys watches was the children's program finishes.

The large white stone building next to the school house is known as Father's House. On the ground level is an orphanage for local children. They currently house 8 children - 3 boys and 5 girls and are overseen by a Khmer couple that also lives there. They all live there as a family - taking turns cooking, cleaning, and doing other chores. The children are also required to attend school and tutoring sessions as well as learn English. One morning, we spent time with the kids in Father's House. We taught them origami, a few English songs, and a game. It was so much fun seeing them laugh, play and be kids!!

We taught the kids origami.
They loved the colorful paper.

Us with the kids of Father's House.

The open space above the orphanage is their gathering and worship space. This is where they hold Sunday services - mostly done in Khmer - and provide other town meetings.

My friend, Jenn takes in the view of Saang from the worship space atop Father's House.

The newest building in the back of the complex is the Sak Saum "factory." Sak Saum is a program that hires women who have been saved from the sex trade industry to sew handbags and other textile goods. Sak Saum teaches these women to sew, think critically, problem solve, and produce a sustainable income. They provide them with a place to live and food to eat, a safe place to work, and a community to belong to. To be involved with this program, the women must learn to read, write and speak English as well. All the proceeds from their bag sales go back into the program either to sustain the women or the program itself.

This is one of the women in Sak Saum.
She is making her designated style of purse.

Jenn (far left), Suzanne (blue shirt) and myself with more of the Sak Saum women.

Sak Saum has recently opened a store front in Phnom Penh to sell their goods! Until now, they have been relying only on online sales to move their products. They had just finished the construction but needed help setting up the displays. This is where we came into play. We spent a whole day setting out many of their beautiful purses, wallets, baby booties, and scarves. It was hard not to buy it all right there!

The Sak Saum store in Phnom Penh after we've displayed the goods.

These are all their goodies!
You can purchase them off their website.

Thursday, June 9, 2011

New Job #1

So I haven't updated on the ongoing employment battle in a while and there have been a few developments! I have a SEVERAL new jobs that are all starting this summer! First off, I am teaching an English conversation class to a small group of Japanese women one night a week. I also started a new position as the recording secretary for the Kadena Officers' Spouses' Club (KOSC.) Though this position is voluntary, it'll be a great way to meet new women around base and get involved with a charitable organization. Finally, in July I will start teaching gymnastics and tumbling classes to kids 5 and younger at the Youth Center on Kadena!

Each of these new opportunities offers a very different experience. I will meet different types of people, use different skills, and learn new things. But overall, they are all MINE!! They do not relate to Mike's job, Mike's squadron, or Mike's schedule! This will be very good for me!

I'll tell you about each new job over time, but first I'd like to tell you about my English class! This one promises to be the most unique and fulfilling of all three jobs. I had my first session last night, and it was phenomenal! This is a group of 5-6 Japanese women that meet each Thursday to practice their English. They all speak the language fairly well already but want to practice the flow of conversation, learn some slang or idioms, and use more difficult vocabulary. My job is is to answer questions and facilitate conversation when needed.

Back row from the left: Yukari, Junko, me, Yuki
Front row left to right: Rumiko, Lika

Last night we got to know each other by talking about our families, husbands, jobs, homes, etc. I brought with me several pictures of Mike, Rusty, the jet, my family, and wedding pictures. They were all so impressed with my "handsome family and tall husband!" My favorite quote of the night was, "Is this your father? He looks like Harrison Ford!" Of course, I burst out laughing and knew I'd have to call immediately when I got home.

They weren't far off! Right?!
Let's not let this go to his head!

So this week, some of the new words and phrases we learned were:
  • Quadruplets
  • Empty nest or empty nest syndrome
  • Dehumidifier
  • Newly wed
  • Lap dog
  • Silver fox
  • "Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue"
  • Household chores
  • Considerate or to be considerate
  • To interfere with
It was such a great time talking with them. I feel like I am making new friends already and am really thankful for this opportunity! I can't wait for our next meeting! I'll be sure to keep you posted on the funny things we discuss or come up with! Any suggestions for topics are also welcome!